As you might be able to guess from my name, I was a Phi Delt in college. I am now 3 years removed from being an active member, so there are very few actives left that I know. Here are my thoughts on this.
1. House tours are always free (duh), so why even bother putting up a sign. Just walk yourself over to the sorority, introduce yourself and perhaps invite them over for a house tour.
2. Hanging a "banner" made from a bed sheet and marker is never a good look. Not surprised some holier-than-thou tough guy who probably doesn't like Phi Delt took a picture of it and cried harassment.
3. Regardless, it just doesn't look very classy. I don't personally think it's grounds for suspension and investigation, but since someone took major offense to it, that's what you have to do.
When you're in a fraternity, you're no longer representing only yourself. You're also representing your organization. So with the stigmas and stereotypes of fraternities along with the sexual harassment and assault that happens on college campuses, you have to be extra careful with your words and actions. These two men had a lapse in judgement, and unfortunately it's blowing up on them.
1. House tours are always free (duh), so why even bother putting up a sign. Just walk yourself over to the sorority, introduce yourself and perhaps invite them over for a house tour.
2. Hanging a "banner" made from a bed sheet and marker is never a good look. Not surprised some holier-than-thou tough guy who probably doesn't like Phi Delt took a picture of it and cried harassment.
3. Regardless, it just doesn't look very classy. I don't personally think it's grounds for suspension and investigation, but since someone took major offense to it, that's what you have to do.
When you're in a fraternity, you're no longer representing only yourself. You're also representing your organization. So with the stigmas and stereotypes of fraternities along with the sexual harassment and assault that happens on college campuses, you have to be extra careful with your words and actions. These two men had a lapse in judgement, and unfortunately it's blowing up on them.
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