Teen Floundering in Foster Care Finally Gets to be a Sister With Real Family for First Time
At five years old, Merriah entered foster care after enduring abuse and neglect from parents with mental health and substance abuse problems. For nine long years, she went back and forth between multiple foster homes and her mother’s home, never experiencing the stability of a real family.
For years Merriah was afraid she might never get adopted.
“I knew what adoption was, but I just didn’t think that was something that was going to ever happen to me,” said Merriah. “I felt invisible.”
That all changed when she was referred to the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption. Their signature program hires adoption professionals dedicated to finding permanent families for youth in foster care who are too often overlooked.
One of the ‘recruiters’, Megan, got to know Merriah, and built her a network of mentors and supportive adults—two of whom were like Emilie and John. The couple got to know the New York teen through community activities and dinners where they’d listen to what was happening in her life. Over time, Merriah began to trust Emilie and John and open up like never before.
They forged an unbreakable bond, until finally—just before her 15th birthday—Emilie and John announced they wanted that bond to be forever. They adopted her as a daughter.
“It took a huge weight off my chest knowing that I didn’t have to worry about not having a home anymore,” said Merriah. “I haven’t felt relief literally at all in my life.”
For years Merriah was afraid she might never get adopted.
“I knew what adoption was, but I just didn’t think that was something that was going to ever happen to me,” said Merriah. “I felt invisible.”
That all changed when she was referred to the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption. Their signature program hires adoption professionals dedicated to finding permanent families for youth in foster care who are too often overlooked.
One of the ‘recruiters’, Megan, got to know Merriah, and built her a network of mentors and supportive adults—two of whom were like Emilie and John. The couple got to know the New York teen through community activities and dinners where they’d listen to what was happening in her life. Over time, Merriah began to trust Emilie and John and open up like never before.
They forged an unbreakable bond, until finally—just before her 15th birthday—Emilie and John announced they wanted that bond to be forever. They adopted her as a daughter.
“It took a huge weight off my chest knowing that I didn’t have to worry about not having a home anymore,” said Merriah. “I haven’t felt relief literally at all in my life.”
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