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    Six months ago, my wife of 48 years was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer and was given six months to a year to live. She lost 35 pounds, couldn't keep food down, and became critically week. We pursued several different doctors and three major cancer hospitals who all came to the same negative conclusion. Mayo Clinic for one, after not even looking at her records, questioned even why we were there and why we were taking up their valuable time.

    During this period the only way I was able to maintain some degree of sanity was to lose myself for a few minutes to an hour daily on shockernet. Shockernet allowed me a short remise to take my mind off of her illness and simply watching her waste away without my being able to do anything about it.

    But, in March, she started slowly to regain some strength and put on some weight, a sign that her weekly directed cancer treatment was doing some good.

    Then we visited MD Anderson, in Houston, where they conducted 13 hours of testing over a two day period. Her Oncologist there then reviewed her test results and later called us to explain that he had presented her case to a panel of other oncologists and surgeons. And they all agreed that her tumor COULD be successfully operated on and completely removed. We are now scheduled to return to MD Anderson in mid-May to meet with the Head of the Surgical Department who is going to do the operation. She still has a very difficult operation ahead of her and a long recovery period. But we now have hope for a complete recovery. And tomorrow we are heading to Paris for a week to celebrate this tremendous good news.

    My only reason for providing you the above information is simply to pass on to you "youngsters" to never give up and never lose hope, no matter how bad the situation looks.

    And further to thank each and every one of you for your brilliant, witty, sarcastic, hilarious, stupid, ridiculous, comical, cutting, optimistic and pessimistic comments, on basketball, which kept me going.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

  • #2
    That's great news!

    And great advice - even for those of us who aren't youngsters anymore.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.

    :goshocks: :goshocks: :goshocks:
    Kansas is Flat. The Earth is Not!!

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    • #3
      I'm glad to hear things appear to be moving in the right direction 60. My prayers are also with you and your wife.
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      • #4
        Add my prayers to the list. Have a wonderful time in Paris, and I hope the surgery goes well.

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        • #5
          :clap: <=== Me cheering for you and your wife!

          God is good! I'll be praying for the both of you.

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          • #6
            ditto
            Marge: The plant called and said that if you don't come in tomorrow, don't bother coming in Monday.
            Homer: WOOHOO! Four day weekend.

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            • #7
              All of the above! :good: :good:
              "You Just Want to Slap The #### Outta Some People"

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              • #8
                Great news 60, have a safe trip and return ready for that victory.

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                • #9
                  Have a safe trip. Add my prayers to the list.

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                  • #10
                    God bless your lovely bride (and you). Never underestimate the power of faith when combined with modern medicine. Keep us up to date, brother 60!
                    Because Denny Crane says so Dammit!

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                    • #11
                      Add my prayers and blessings to the list. GOD be with you.
                      Lee
                      If it feels good - do it!

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                      • #12
                        Nice

                        All the best wishes to you and your wife, 60. Stay safe, and Godspeed.

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                        • #13
                          I'm with you as well. Be strong, and be POSITIVE. Miracles can happen...............I am living proof......almost 25 years cancer-free!

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                          • #14
                            Good luck to both of you. Our best wishes go with you.
                            Some posts are not visible to me. :peaceful:
                            Don't worry too much about it. Just do all you can do and let the rough end drag.

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                            • #15
                              Best of luck. The people at MD Anderson are top notch. My father made several trips there in his battle with prostate cancer and raved about how the mentality there makes it easy to keep the faith and never give up.

                              Go 60's Wife!!!!!
                              "When life hands you lemons, make lemonade." Better have some sugar and water too, or else your lemonade will suck!

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